This Is Why You Will Regret Losing A Woman Who Loved You And Waited For You To Be 'Ready'

Everyone deserves a second chance, but when a good woman is done, she's done, and there is no going back.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if life was like in the movies? Where two individuals fall in love, go through many relationship trials, learn valuable lessons, forgive and grow together as a couple. Where they make mistakes, but it is okay because one person can admit their error, and work on themselves to become a better human being.

Unfortunately, life doesn’t always work this way. Well, perhaps sometimes it does, but these are rare circumstances.

Generally, two people meet; they both have issues and baggage. Their relationship grows and strengthens as communication lines are clear. Both people are often willing to do the work required. If one person is not up to doing this, then the relationship will eventually fall apart. And though some people are willing to give countless chances and hope for the best after months or even years of the same behaviors, others will only walk away, slam the door, and never look back.

Good women and good people, in general, believe in the best and will give several chances because they have hope.

A good woman will see the good in you, even if you can’t. She understands why you keep repeating the same patterns and mistakes, which is why she is so patient. However, it can’t go on like this forever.

Every lit candle will eventually reach the end of its wick, and when the flame goes out, there's no chance of getting it alight once more. No matter how hard you try, there is nothing you can do. It does not matter anymore if you finally decide to commit, get a job, clean the house, or grow up and apologize for everything you've done; once she is done, she's done, and there is no going back.

She'll spend her time and energy on someone or something else, most likely herself, and start a process of self-love to undo the damage she's done to herself in the past. She finally knows her worth, even if you didn’t.

The immature party will likely realize they've made a fatal error, but instead of acknowledging their faults, they'll comfort themselves with cliche phrases such as “well if they couldn’t handle me at my worst…” This is so far from the truth. The reality is that no one has to stay around for anybody else’s toxic garbage, and no one deserves a stressful, chaos-filled life because their partner couldn't take responsibility for their harmful behavior.

You had a good woman who used to love you and support you at your lowest point, and rather than appreciating her; you tried to walk all over. Why? Because you took her kindness for granted, and you expected her to always be by your side just because she was so loving and caring.

Once you grow up and sort yourself out, you'll probably find somebody who will work out in a relationship with you. However, it’s easy to love somebody and support them when everything is going well and when they have their life together. The real sign of love is when somebody is willing to help you through the dark, challenging times, and they see the good in you that you have not discovered yet.

And you had that, but you threw it away.

While you have moments which painfully remind you of what you could've had, she's looking ahead to a better future without you.