When a woman loses admiration and respect toward her mate, she stops being attracted to them.
Once a woman falls out of love, it means that the impression she had of her partner has been distorted. Women tend to fall in love with men they respect, admire and appreciate. Below we discuss five reasons why a woman might lose respect for her partner and fall out of love with them.
1. Being possessive and overly-jealous
It is a fact that women are attracted to men they feel can protect them and care for them. Women admire men they can rely on. However, there are cases where a man can become overly protective or even obsessed with their partner. And when a woman starts feeling uncomfortable and anxious in a relationship, it is a red flag. Suspicion, jealousy and control are dominant factors for feeling discomfort in a relationship. In such cases, the woman feels devalued in the sense that she is treated as if she is not trustworthy and unable to make her own decisions. Not being trusted and feeling devalued is one of the most common reasons why women lose respect for their partner. But this need not apply exclusively to women, and it should be the case for anyone independently of sex and sexual orientation.
2. Being domineering and arrogant
Not allowing your partner to make decisions for themselves, thus communicating a sense of inadequacy about them, is a huge deal-breaker to anyone. People need to feel valued and appreciated, and relationships develop in synergy and mutual growth. Those qualities cannot flourish in a relationship where one is dominating the other, not giving them space to act according to their will and devaluing their opinion. When this happens, a woman will naturally lose interest as her partner does not make her feel good about herself.
3. Being unfair and immature.
It is essential to a woman that her partner is emotionally mature. Being emotionally mature signifies that a man h be just toward others and able to hold himself responsible for his actions. When this sense of maturity and fairness is not present, then a woman can be easily put off and subsequently discontinue the relationship. So if you are sincerely interested in your partner, make sure you are fair to them and show that you can own your mistakes.
4. Lacking ambition
There is nothing more attractive to a person than having goals and pursuing them. Goals are the driving force for our achievements and personal development. A person who is easily defeated and gives up on their goals gets stuck in a state of inertia where personal growth is deemed impossible. Ambition then is an essential quality that we look for in our partner as it motivates us to improve ourselves too and grow along with them. Lacking ambition, on the other hand, signifies a lack of reliability and weakness of character, cultivating a sense of insecurity in a relationship.
5. Lack of appreciation
Everyone needs to feel loved and appreciated. To care for someone means to love them for their intrinsic value. That is, to acknowledge the intrinsic qualities of their virtuous character. When a person, be it a woman or a man, gets the sense that they are unappreciated, it is a sign that they are not loved. Naturally, the person will look elsewhere for the love appreciation they are not getting in their current relationship. Constant criticism and failure to acknowledge your partner's efforts also contribute to them feeling unloved and unappreciated.
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