Creating a healthy relationship is probably one of the hardest things you can do in your life. The reasons are many. And they include not only how well you fit in with the other person and the choices you make, but also the standards you have and how you are used to being treated in a relationship.
Many times we choose the wrong partner. And we stay in that relationship for a long time, either because we don't recognize it or because we're used to it.
However, it is especially important to build relationships that make us feel good and make us better than they found us, not worse.
This is very difficult, especially when the relationship has already started on the wrong basis.
Keep reading, and you will discover the ten most obvious signs that you are in the wrong relationship. And that you have to do something right away to change it.
1. You can't remember the last time you had a good time together.
When was the last time that you "had the time of your life" together? You find yourself struggling to remember the last time that you were truly happy and in love.
2. You can't imagine your future together.
You don't make plans for your future together, not only because you don't want to but because deep down, you don't see your future together.
3. You don't feel yourself around them.
What you used to like about yourself, your personality, and what makes you special has diminished or disappeared altogether.
4. You fight all the time.
It doesn't mean that the best relationships are the ones you don't fight, but always fighting for every possible cause and occasion is a sign that you need to rethink your relationship.
5.You don't find them attractive anymore.
You can't even tell what you found attractive about them in the first place. The butterflies are gone from your stomach, and you don't feel goosebumps every time you see them.
6. You constantly blame each other.
The purpose of a relationship is to support each other. When you are in a relationship that you constantly blame each other for everything, then this is a loud sign that this relationship is not going as well as you think.
7. You feel that they suck all your energy.
You find yourself drained. Your relationship is supposed to make you feel happy, to make you full, and, at the same time, relaxed and calm.
8. You are totally different.
Not agreeing about everything and being different people is not necessarily a negative as long as there are several common points where you keep up. But if you have nothing in common, if you can't find things to do together and you feel like you're from a completely different world, then that's probably a sign that you're both in the wrong relationship.
9. You don't have a sexual life.
Your sex life plays a huge role in your relationship. No matter how much time passes, sex is a fundamental element in a love affair. If there is no satisfying and intense sex life, then the relationship ceases to be erotic and becomes mostly friendly-brotherly.
10. Everyone around you warns you that you are not made for each other.
Sometimes we are unable to see someone's flaws, but people that are out of the relationship can notice them. When everyone warns you, don't be defensive, listen to them, they have likely realized something that you can't see.
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