Are you heartbroken because you have left a relationship? Is it made worse by the fact that everyone else seems to be in a relationship or married with children?
When you see everyone achieving these things, and the best you have done is keep down a steady dead-end job it can seem like things are very dark, sometimes very dark indeed.
While it might appear sad on the surface, being out of a relationship means that you are now truly free. No one relies on you and you don’t rely on them, and with time you will realise that it was not a good relationship at all; and that you have had a positive thing happen in your life when it seemed like a very strong negative at first.
Now that you are free you can connect with your true-self. Instead of feeling bad about being single, while your friends build the foundations of their families, feel good about not having to put up with someone’s awfully narcissistic nature.
Once you let go of the pain someone has caused you, it means that you can rebuild what you really want, from strong fixed authentic foundations. Thanks to your ex, you are now on the right path towards making your dreams come true.
Now that you have the courage to get out of the emotional trauma and drama, you realise that you are actually a really great person and that you shouldn’t put yourself down for being single. You should be grateful for the way things have worked out.
So, say “Thank you!” to your ex.
Thank you for making me realise how great I am. Thank you for making me realise that I can do better than your selfish and narcissistic behaviour. Thank you for removing me from all the constant drama and bad behaviour. Thank you for making me realise how strong a person I am and for giving me the opportunity of a brighter future.
You were the one that made me free, and made me realise I am worthy of love and affection, you are the one that made me realise that I can overcome anything. Now I know what behaviour to never tolerate in the future and now I know what my boundaries are.
You have made me feel worthy and grateful to just be me!
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