No one should ever be selfish, self-centred, greedy or immoral. That goes without saying. Unfortunately, too often, the people who are the strongest and the most caring, end up being taken advantage of due to their good nature. Therefore, sometimes even the strongest people in the world have to realise that they don’t have to apologise for certain things.
Here are 6 things you should never apologise for.
Putting yourself first
Strong people are often putting other’s needs before their own. This is wonderful and really is the core of what it is to be a moral person. Sometimes though they go too far and end up forgetting their own needs, desires, goals and dreams. This isn’t healthy at all. Remember, morality and caring for others is a two way street.
Not asking for permission
Again, this is due to putting other people's desires ahead of our own. Too often, people are asking permission from people who shouldn’t be given a say over what we do. If you want something, and it is not harming anyone, just do it!
Speaking your mind
No one should be made to feel that their opinions and true beliefs should be hidden away for fear of offending someone. If you believe something, then respectfully and calmly, put it forward. This isn’t something you should be apologising for afterwards.
Not saying 'yes' to every request
Maybe your friends want you to go out when you don’t really want to, or your boss is asking you to do overtime yet again, or maybe you are being asked if you would like help with something when you would rather be working alone. At all times it is perfectly ok to say ‘no’ to someone’s request.
Being free
It doesn’t mean that you hate others or don’t respect them, but your freedom is the most important thing you have in this life. Do not apologise for desiring the freedom to do as you so wish. Choose how you want to live your own life and don’t live it on anyone else’s terms.
Wanting more
Too many greedy people call others ‘greedy’ for simply wanting their fair share. Never apologise for wanting more or for wishing to build a better life for yourself. That doesn’t mean take from others or become obsessed with acquiring wealth or status, it means getting what you justifiably deserve.
It is great that you are a morally strong person, but please remember that you must also be fair to yourself, and that means not apologising for who you truly are and what you truly want.
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