Some of us just love being around others, we love the conversation, excitement and fun of human interaction. In fact, some people just can’t stand being alone. They see their existence as being manifest in their interactions with others.
Then there are other people. People who are more introverted, who enjoy their own company, and in many cases don’t actually enjoy being around others. At least certain groups of others, or certain types of people. What is often a mistake though, is to think that these people are somehow loners or unable to function socially. This couldn’t be further from the truth.
In fact, these people, who have small social groups or prefer to fly solo are among the most interesting and deep people you will ever meet or be able to count as a friend.
Here are 5 reasons to appreciate being an introvert, or appreciate having an introvert in your life:
1. They have healthy boundaries
Too many people who are in constant need of social interaction and attention do not have healthy boundaries. Due to their constant requirement for sociability they can often allow people to lead them down paths they would not otherwise choose to go. They are also incapable of stepping back from people who treat them poorly, or who do not take their feelings into account. This is not a problem that introverts have. Introverts know what they are worth and will stick by their principles.
2. They are very loyal
Because an introvert often has a smaller circle of friends they will often know and treasure their friendships to a deeper level. This means they may be less likely to betray a friend or to not take their friend’s feelings into consideration. The fact that an introvert chooses you as a friend and wants you to be in their exclusive circle means that they value you and will likely defend you against slander or poor treatment from others.
3. They are deep thinkers
Being alone a lot of the time gives people a lot more time to think about deeper issues, and issues that others may often not think about. This means their conversations are probably a lot more interesting and diverse than someone who is constantly stimulated by day-to-day small-talk.
4. They are mentally strong
Being on one's own a lot means they have likely come to know themselves better than others have. This means they know their own values, beliefs and strengths. This makes for someone who is much more mentally stable and able to overcome difficulties going forward. Only when we know ourselves, are we able to build meaningful relationships with others.
5. They value love
Someone who is constantly in different relationships or jumps from relationship to relationship may start to devalue the true importance of love and intimacy. Those who are alone for longer periods know the true value of love and relationships and will not throw it away at the drop of a hat.
Introverts truly are hidden gems!
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